The mindset shouldn't be where you practically think you are on the team. How competitive one is doesn't matter much because we aren't competing.
Losses can be incredibly frustrating, but at the end of the day for me, it's just a game, and one that I have no influence on. So while I'll get frustrated and upset, it's important to remember that imo so I can avoid having it affect me to the point where it's unhealthy.
Screw that. Obviously, I know there is nothing I can do to personally influence how the team plays. Doesn't matter. I'm going to live and die with this team.
Maybe things will change someday when I have a family or somehow find a way to get a different perspective but for now this is my passion.