I agree with some of this.
Where I agree:
- Players may want to avoid being singled out. Pressure now to be on either 'side.' That's why they have to be interviewed by 3rd parties.
- Yes, how they set up the previous anonymous interviews was embarrassing.
- It's tricky imo, because it's a lot of different people and not everyone is going to have had the same experiences. You need to interview the whole, to get a better sense.
Where I disagree:
- I don't think the notion that any players on to the NFL would be unwilling to speak up. That seems far-fetched to me.
There remains two different things imo. McNair's death, the allegations of a toxic culture.
What hasn't been proven imo are:
- That they were negligent with McNair's death. (Sounds like they might be, but it's not yet proven... and I saw Mike Randall (former EMT) contradict what McNair's lawyer said should have been step 1 (ice bath). So, I think that has to be looked at further.
- That there no other contributing factors.
- That there is a toxic culture. There is enough in that ESPN article that there should be a 3rd party investigation. There isn't enough in that article for me to say there is definitively a toxic culture.
- If the players confirm a toxic culture exists, then you have to show that that toxic culture was a contributing cause in McNair's death.
For me, the bottom-line remains interviewing the players and letting them tell you what actually exists within the program.
The root behind the way these toxic cultures work is that no one wants to speak up or report it. It's abuse. Just like child abuse or spousal abuse, getting it reported is the hard part. It's a situation where if you speak up, and it doesn't get handled 100%, which often they don't, look at all the chances people are willing to give to let them out of culpability, then retribution is a real fear. Now people that have studied these abuse issues know that fear of retribution in itself is a sign of existence, but in general people want to chalk it up to paranoia. That being said...there is some degree of this behavior DRENCHED throughout sports. The problem being that for generations not only have we been taught to ignore it, but we have been taught that this is the accepted and preferred behavior and it makes us better. People honestly believe that the job of a trainer is to push you when you want to give up. There's a HUGE difference in mentally wanting to give up and your body telling you it has had enough, and it's supposed to be the job of a REAL trainer to know those and be on hand to judge which is which.
The problem with the negligence/intentional issue isn't in the what should have happened in the TREATMENT, Randall is probably exactly right there, the problem is that they refused to let it get to the TREATMENT stage and weren't doing their job which is to watch out for dangerous conditions. They were more worried about yelling at kids to push harder than they were about seeing a kid is seriously at risk. That's a major fail. We as parents, hopefully, aren't looking at these kids as paydays waiting to happen, but as our KIDS, and we are trusting these coaches to watch over them and their wellbeing when we can't. That hasn't just been exposed in all this, but the idea of it has been DESTROYED here.
Separate out the death and the toxicity rumors. The death alone is enough that all involved should be a lot more than given a slap on the wrist. This wasn't cause a kid was working out too hard on his own without supervision, or was taking supplements he shouldn't have at practice, this was a case of a kid being pushed past what is safe, and none of the adults trusted to keep this from happening did anything about it. I mean if they can't do the basic job of keeping their players alive, then they sure as hell shouldn't be getting paid millions of dollars to be a college coach.
With the toxicity stuff, it's easy to say that is what led directly to the death, and it's just as easy to say I want proof. But you also have to think what kind of proof are you asking for? Isn't that giving them a little too much slack saying that you want it proven that they directly contributed to a kid's death? I mean who was in charge of practice? Did it happen? As long as there isn't something obvious that shows there's nothing they could have done, then yeah, this is on them and the fact that people want to give them benefit of the doubt is amazing to me. The burden of proof shouldn't be on the dead kid's family, it should be on the people in charge that are supposed to be keeping them safe above all. The toxic stuff is second fiddle to me. But given the few details that have come out already, it's enough to say coaches should be fired.
The problem with this stuff and sports is that with sports we have fandom and that tends to build extra slack into decisions, and people worry about the future of the team. Well take this whole situation out of sports, and say this is a teacher teaching a high school PE class. This kid dies on their watch, same conditions, do you feel the same way about waiting to see how much proof comes about or is the death enough for you to know they shouldn't work there?