This might be better answered by those with kids in sports but feel free to offer up your opinion. I'm sure you've got kids McNulty even if you've never seen them.
Here's my dilemma: I have a 6 year old son who is a big kid, he's tall and solid. This summer he showed an interest in playing football and we decided he could try it out. He's a somewhat sensitive kid (not a whiner) but he's a pretty good athlete. He made a U8 travel baseball team for reference.
Well, we are in to football by about $300 bucks with equipment and registration fees. And he hates it. He tries to get out of tackling and blocking by taking bathroom breaks and was crying when I told him he had to go back down and return to practice. I've talked to the coach about it and he says its the same for most of the kids when they first start football. He told us to hang in there. He's confident that this will pass. He told us to reward him with a slurpee or something after practice which we are doing and it seems to help somewhat.
The thing is, he's an imposing kid on the field. Because of his size, they originally wanted to move him up. When he does try, he's pretty good. However, he moves slow and just isn't into it. He's the Jared Gaither of U6 football.
He's at his aunt's today and she just called me and said he told her he hates football and she thinks we should pull him out of it. Now, her kids are the most undisciplined kids you'll ever meet so anything coming from her is worthless. But, he still reached out to her.
I'm kinda at a loss as to what to do here. I don't feel like he should quit. I've talked to him about honoring his commitment and I don't think its the right thing to do to let him quit. On the other hand, he's miserable. But how long with that last? I feel like he will feel better about himself if he stuck this out as opposed to quitting.
What do you guys think?