WEEI: TIME FOR JENNY DELL, NESN RELATIONSHIP TO END
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Lots of times we don't know right or wrong, but lots of times we do, and this sure is one. Now, it's not wrong that Dell and Middlebrooks have feelings for each other. That's life, the heart wants what it wants, all that. But a reporter cannot be in a romantic relationship with -- much less living with -- a player he or she is covering on a daily basis. That's simply not how it works
It's already tough enough for young, attractive female TV reporters to be taken seriously, isn't it? Fair or not, there is always this idea that there could be something going on with a player. Far more often than not that isn't the case -- these are smart, qualified professionals trying to do the best work possible in a difficult environment -- but it's within boundaries to wonder if this makes it even tougher for these women to be perceived fairly.
It's time for NESN to step up. ("We don't comment on ongoing personnel company matters," a NESN spokesperson told me when asked to comment for this story.) It's been 15 days since the picture was tweeted out and there has been nothing from NESN, not one word. This couldn't have come as a surprise; there have been whispers about this relationship for months (and multiple industry sources have confirmed that NESN was aware of the possibility of this relationship existing last season). And it's not as if this is a situation that is entirely new to the folks over at NESN, as there is some history with this position and conflicts involving players. A plan of action should have already been in place.
I don't like the whole idea of sports journalists dating athletes in the first place. It plays into the sterotype that they are using their position for that purpose. But I don't have as big of a problem with it, if it's not a team or sport they cover. For example, Sam Ponder doesn't cover the NFL or Vikings, so no reason why she shouldn't be allowed to continue. ESPN just shouldn't use her to cover the NFL and certainly not the Vikings.